Title: The Gifted: How to Live the Life of Your Dreams
Author: Daphne Michaels
Publisher: Daphne Michaels Books
Pages: 130
Genre: Personal Development/Spirituality
Format: Paperback / Kindle
Author: Daphne Michaels
Publisher: Daphne Michaels Books
Pages: 130
Genre: Personal Development/Spirituality
Format: Paperback / Kindle
In The Gifted:
How to Live the Life of Your Dreams author, speaker and licensed
psychotherapist Daphne Michaels celebrates the nine gifts that are our
birthright, guiding readers in how to recognize and use them to transform their
lives. In her author's preface, Michaels reveals how her own journey of
life transformation began when she was young and realized that human existence
wore two conflicting faces--one of love and joy, and one of fear and despair.
She decided then to commit her life to reconciling these two visions because
she knew that, irreconcilable though they seemed, together these two faces held
the secret to living a life of endless possibility and authentic happiness. Her
personal journey and formal education in social science, human services and
integral psychology led to the founding of the Daphne Michaels Institute, which
has helped hundreds of men and women design the lives of their dreams.
In The Gifted
Michaels shows us that the first three “gifts” we must recognize and embrace
within us if we are to re-design our lives are Awareness, Potential
and Stillness. These three allow us to identify and use the remaining
six with a life-changing power: Disharmony, Harmony, Ease, Clarity,
Freedom and Engagement. Each of these six relies on the
“essential three” for its own power to change our lives, and each has its own
gifts--its “children.” By approaching the nine gifts with real-world metaphors,
Michaels answers in easily understood ways what for many readers have been
lingering questions about personal transformation—such as how it works, what
kind of commitment it takes, and why, if we’re committed, real transformation
becomes inevitable—and addresses obstacles that readers may have encountered in
the past in trying to reach in life a happiness every human deserves.
While the human
universe’s face of love is celebrated in The Gifted, so is the face of
fear that haunted a young girl decades ago. As Michaels shows us in her book,
even Disharmony—the “quagmire” of life born of the human ego’s fear,
defenses, delusions and despair—is a gift, too, and one as important as the
others if we know how to see it clearly and use it. Once we understand
Disharmony, we are ready to understand the real purpose of Harmony in our
lives. Disharmony does not need to rule us. It is ours to use as we
design the lives of our dreams.
The final gift in The
Gifted, Michaels tells us, is the gift of Engagement.
Engagement—with the universe and with ourselves—allows us to use all of the
other gifts with more power and joy than we ever imagined possible.
That mountaintop
decision never left me. It drove my life’s work and over the years led me to
understand that there are gifts – nine of them, in fact – that we are all born
with but rarely experience in their full glory and potential. These gifts
– which make each and every one of us “The Gifted” of this book’s title – are
the keys to living lives of endless possibilities and, in turn, achieving an
authentic happiness that cannot be lost. They are, in other words, the
keys to achieving the life of our dreams.
Book Excerpt:
Life’s
greatest mystery is inside us. It is inside every living thing. Like the deep
secrets of the universe, the mystery inside us will never be fully explained.
By exploring it, however, we can discover gifts available to us that can change
our lives forever.
Life’s
great mystery is awareness. More basic than thoughts and more primal
than instincts, awareness does not require a centralized brain, as scientists
have proven through studies with invertebrates like starfish. While these
beautiful creatures have no centralized brains, they possess awareness.
Starfish, like all invertebrates, use awareness to perceive, eat, grow,
reproduce, and survive.
Awareness is
so intrinsic to life that it defines life: living means being aware.
From the beginning of life – before we take an initial breath – humans
demonstrate tremendous awareness. Prenatal psychologists have discovered that
we experience, while still in our mother’s womb, not only light and sound but,
even more astonishingly, emotion. We kick our legs when agitated by loud
noises and sway pleasantly to beautiful classical music. Months before birth we
grimace at the taste of sour amniotic fluid and drink heartily when it is
sweet. Awareness grows as we grow.
As
we develop as human beings, our awareness stretches in all directions – from
awareness of our five basic senses to awareness of external events around us,
from awareness of our emotions to awareness of our thoughts, from limited
awareness of a topic that bores us to an expanded awareness of topics we feel
passionate about. Of all the many dimensions of awareness, the highest form is self-awareness.
With self-awareness we begin to appreciate just how far awareness actually
extends. Just as ocean waters are deeper than the surface of the sea, awareness
is deeper than the surface of our physical body or our conscious thoughts. The
infinite depth and breadth of awareness is filled with gifts that are ours
to receive.
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